I read something interesting in a Christian blog. And felt the need to post something here. Please excuse my plagiarism.
There are a couple of things to keep in mind on first dates or at the outset of a relationship.
Men Should Be the Pursuers
It seems as if the women's movement many years ago has left an environment of men not knowing how to properly pursue a woman and women struggling with the desire to wait for a man's advances and a yearning to expedite the process.
God created man as the "hunter-type" to find (and protect) his wife. There's nothing wrong with letting a guy know you are interested or suggesting you should get together, however he should be the one who pursues you.
I hear from many women who get tired of waiting for a guy to ask them out and take matters into their own hands. The lack of initiative on a guy's part is often a precursor of what you can expect of him in a relationship and in his personality. Oftentimes the things that attract you to an individual at the outset are the exact things that turn you away later in the relationship.
Yup. Total fail in this area Sally! Seriously, I "died" after reading the title. MEN SHOULD BE THE PURSUER!! Women should just sit and watch. But, I thought this was the traditional view!! Who the heck thinks like that anymore? And besides, men take too long to come up with a decision.
But it's interesting about the last sentence, saying that a guy's lack of initiative will show later on in the relationship about how he acts and behaves and treats u in the relationship. I've never really thought of it that way. I guess its true that if women keep making the first move then men would not feel the need to put in any effort and thought into a relationship.
In short, women should do absolutely nothing. Won't it be great if all men understand? But, sadly not.
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